Job, there have not been any in-home text conversations since the last time I told him to come to me to discuss things.

What made this situation particularly ridiculous is that I was not at home when he asked us to dinner and then rescinded the offer in 20 minutes. His expectation that I should be ever-available is juvenile.

But don't worry. I get it that he needs to man up and learn how to interact face to face. I will toe the line on this. My suspicion is that he'll purposely not text while we're both home but just try at a time when we aren't both home. I'll be ready to say: let's discuss this later, face to face, when we're both home.

Happy Thanksgiving to all who celebrate!


Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13
BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself
BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room"
8/15: H back to MBR
10/15: H back in dorm room
1/18: H files, now divorced