How are you coming along in the "no texting" in the home situation? Has he ceased the texting while under the same roof w/you? If not, you really do need to stick to your guns about him actually talking to you versus the texting. It doesn't matter if it's asking you about eating out or blasting you about something...he needs to learn to "talk" to you.
I do hope that you and your family have a nice Thanksgiving. He doesn't realize just how lucky he is to have a warm, loving and patient wife.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
