Standing here very confused

[Carrot]

I should probably also add that during the various relationship status discussion we'd had during the past few weeks (before I stopped initiating them), he'd come down from 11 years unhappiness/not being in love, now to 3 years.

He had apparently held onto some anger from from being confronted abut how late he was out during one of the Friday nights. Saturday morning I'd gone out, returned around 1pm, and when he first spoke to me demanded that we sell the house and get divorced. We talked it out for an hour, attended a friend's wedding that night, and both got the feels set off by various wedding songs, events, etc. and had to keep excusing ourselves from the table to go be teary-eyed in a lobby together.

He started seeing a therapist on his own last week.

Because his mom is having a hard time with her own issues, he's planning to move in with her in January to help her out/get get his space even though it's likely to frustrate/stress/depress him further.

So, just all around confused.