W seemed to continually get worse since my last post. I feel like she's been waiting to pounce on anything she can again. She wasn't around all weekend because she said she was sick (how crazy is it that IDK if I can even believe her). Then this week she has been talking about getting an apartment any time she is around me. She hasn't been staying long at all lately though and her attitude usually stinks. Weird though, Monday night she started wrestling the big dog and a couple weekends ago she was playing with her cat.
When she is around she will want to tell me about it (apartments) then get on her phone, even when I'm trying to talk to her, and when I leave she will follow me into the other room and tell me more about it. I haven't said much back. She mentioned once how she needs to do something so I can have a break from the kids. I told her I didn't need or want one and I was fine.
Well yesterday morning I was almost to my office (she makes me late every day) and she calls yelling at me that the dogs are fighting bad and to come home. I told her I didn't know what to do that it would take me 15 minutes to turn around. She got mad and hung up. Then I got a few hostile texts. Then I got an email forward from my lawyer from w's lawyer asking about when the divorce decree would be done. W had just called her. So the dogs got in a fight, it's somehow my fault, and w calls her lawyer (I can tell by the times). W's lawyer is something else too, just the things she writes... I try not to let it get to me. I have to wonder what w is telling her.
W wanted to come over last night to pack the kids up so they were ready to go. That didn't happen, but she asked if I could get a few things ready to help. I packed everything for them last night. No thank you, she just got mad because I let D sleep in a little and she wasn't dressed when w got here. She said she wanted to stop over, get them and go. 2.5 hours later she calls me because she left her keys on in her car and the battery was dead. She was nice and at least said thanks but didn't bother to get out of the car.
After I got back to work she texted that something was wrong with the little dog from the fight, she was trying to take her. She got messed up bad. I met her back at my house and took the dog to the vet (poor thing). I texted to let her know about her when I got a call and now it's back on me. I picked her up tonight and before I got in the house I get texted from w and MIL within a few seconds of each other. Both basically insinuating I have no sense, asking me how I'm going to keep the dogs apart, etc. I answered w and kept it short. Then I get her classic "thanks." where she throws the period in for attitude. I'm not going to text MIL back, I don't need this and her crazy is on a whole different level. W is acting like her since MLC, it's nuts. IDK if I've said this before, but in hindsight, I can see a change in W since she started having contact with her parents. Up to and a little after we got married w had very little/almost no contact with them. They basically disowned w's crazy@ sister and took her back in.
Last night she also criticized me because s had a little cut or splinter on his finger that was infected. I had cleaned it up but told her so she could take care of it when she had them. She also seemed irritated that I set a pie out for them to take. The kids wanted to make one for Thanksgiving and I wanted to make sure s had a gluten free one. IDK what is up with her but she has continually gotten more distant and occasionally hostile the last month or so.
Hoping for a nice long weekend but I'm missing the kids already. The last few days have stunk, I've tried not to but with w and everything happening it's hard not to let it get to me. Not sure what I'm going to do about my dogs. It's just those two that don't get along.
Sorry again for the rambling vent. Hope everyone has a great Thanksgiving (or weekend if you're not in the states).
