Great advice, HaWho. And, wow, Feyth. I'm so sorry! What a grasp for control that is. I am thankful that my XH didn't even try to take my pup (he IS the one who saw her at someone's house and convinced me to get her when he found out she was available) and had no interest in or ability to have her at his apartment. Sounds like he is really monstering. I wonder how out of control his life is for him to feel the need to vent it all on you in such nasty ways!
Sounds like your L is on it, though. Water off a duck's back, then. It is irrational behavior; and reeks of desperation. I wonder why?
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16