As a lady with a high drive, much higher than the men in my life, I know this stuff needs planning, once planned then this falls into place. Seduction is a crafty business and needs prioritising.
It does need planning but not Work!
The physiology means the more nookie you have the easier it gets. The less anxious the performance, sex is messy funny loving and every adjective, noun and verb that's great.
So you are attracted to each other?
Plan so it looks spontaneous.
I can only speak from personal experience of course and each R is very different. Connection starts with simply smiling, winking and sticky eyes. Sticky eyes is a technique that gets great results. And don't forget kisses and butterfly touches.
However this old crafty bird knows that it takes planning to be spontaneous. My fave on this is Tracey Cox (appropriate name huh?) and superflirt. Mainly because it's light fluffy and full of stories. It isn't a relationship book or in any way serious. There is Youtube BBC programmes. They aren't about fitting rude bits together just much pleasanter loose connection.
Worth a look.
Just saying.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW