Thanks - Sandi2 posted a pretty good response over in your ask Sandi thread....

Lately I've been tempted to join some online dating sites but I know that DR/DB advises against this. Why is that? If we are supposed to be truly acting as if we are "moving on" wouldn't this help? If W caught wind of this I know it would certainly send a sign to her (a few of her friends are on the sites so it would likely get back to her at some point)

Me: 40 W: 45
T: 13, M: 11
1 D: 9

Suspect A 6/15
ILBINILWY 8/15, and 3/16
EA/PA Discovered 3/16
EA admitted 3/16
W Moved out 4/16
W opens R talk and says A over 1/17