Coffee and spinning

[Altair]

Question about Thanksgiving (realizing now why AP and Coly aren't posting/stressing about tomorrow OOPS)
Just in case/being hopeful:
what do i do if I get the 'happy tday hope you are well text?' do i ignore or respond with one short text? (reminder: his choice for us not to talk "for awhile so he can sort out his feelings" I'm tellin ya, he is DBing me- WTH?)

He'll be nearby, with his family (I went last year). I assume no invite for me for any of the family stuff :(, just wondering best idea if i do get a text tomorrow or over the next month or two. Hugs, thanks for the hijack...