MLC H at age 32, maybe single mum with a toddler S

[AndrewP]

Maybe - I find that for me that I get (sometimes too much) attention to my own thread by "visiting the neighbours". Even just a quick drive-by like this one and saying "I feel your pain", "You're doing great!" will generate some interest.

Remember - this is a community and if you get out and about your neighbours will start to take an interest in you.

I will confess that I'm not very familiar with your situation but you seem to be doing your best in a very trying circumstance. There has been some writing and discussion on other threads about "quarter-life-crisis" which can happen as people go through different life stages. I'm not enough of a pro to really comment on that especially since the scientific community isn't a big believer in MLC itself.

In my brief browsing of your thread I haven't noticed too much that you are doing on "your side of the street". You've mentioned some issues that you feel you have had but not too much about what you are doing to become a better person - the person "only a fool would leave". Having your H still coming in an out of your place does make detaching and working on yourself tough - I know this well.

Good luck!