kk, I have been rereading Wild at Heart and it is dredging up issues, but a lot of it is how my H failed our M, and how his father failed/wounded him. Funny, but I think back over our dating and M, and I don't know that we ever really talked about how that made him feel. Except when he asked me to marry him it was hard for him because he did not want to do what his dad did... sigh.
In Wild at Heart he talks about God wounding you where your wound already is. And my Hs wound is exactly what he is doing to his own family. Whether he will heal the wound or walk around with it is anyone's guess.
I hope you are doing okay. I don't know that I am doing as well as you think. Somedays yes, other days, in a fog, wondering what the heck my life is all about.
Anyway, I sure miss our chats.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
