XW showing signs or just MLC script

[Lifes Twists]

Hi Irish,

You are at about the 4 month mark post Divorce. I have seen in my situation along with others that this is about the point they start to admit to themselves that the sun is not shining, that the birds are not singing, and that they are not happy as they expected.

I believe this to be just another stage of the process. At this point, even though she is un happy and the divorce did not fix this she will still try to focus most of the fault on you and what you did or didn't do. Its not worth trying to counter her or convince her other wise. She needs to reach this conclusion on her own. I would not engage in any conversation that has her blaming you until you can get a feeling that she is open to a discussion that allows you to voice a different opinion without her attacking you. For now I would keep any conversation on the girls and how you can work together helping them to grow up into healthy young women. Any other conversations should just have you saying you have to go and ending the conversation. Allowing her to spew or shooting truth darts at this point is not worth any of your time nor does it serve a purpose.