Hi Sotto xx Yes I see what you are saying. There's is nothing to fix between me and her. She's done too much damage and I am tired of validating her because she feels justified.
The girls want nothing to do with her. Her inability to see or remember what she did to them is her downfall. I was her window to them. My problem is I am looking for that small pocket of her being that mom she was. If I saw that I'd help her with the girls full speed ahead. Sadly that mom is gone for good.
I need to remind myself she needs to fix it with them herself. Her messages to them. The last one was over a week ago and it was blame to them and entitlement to her as their mom.
I have a hard time stepping away because of good memories of her. The pain seeing my girls live this is too much. I want them to connect. Just right now XW is not ready.
M51 XW43 (38 at bd) BD1 MAY 30 2015 BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text moved out Aug 2 2015 left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20) Her divorce Final July 26 2016 Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015