XW showing signs or just MLC script

[Irish M]

Hey everyone.

So no contact for the past weekend. Was nice. Funny how the energy from XW can disrupt a peaceful mood so fast.

Quick update on the details of XW text messages. Point form to highlight the key comments from her.
- Last 10 years wasn’t fake
- If we paid for the best MC we wouldn’t be in this situation. We owed ourselves that.
- I regret hurting the girls and you
- I didn’t feel loved by you or the girls. Pain was strong I had to run
- Our friends abandoned me too even if I deleted them from FB and never reached out to them
- I feel dead inside
- At times I wanted to end it all
- Why didn’t you try to stop me? Why did the girls just let me go? It proves my point about not being wanted
- You say you love me and worry about me. Action speaks louder than word and you are all words.
- Irish, you need to move on, be happy
- Your parents didn’t try to help me. They knew something was wrong with me. My sister and mother either. Everyone doesn’t care what happens to me.

All that above is pretty good stuff. Things that a LBS would love to hear. Wow. Is she waking up?

Today was a phone call.

I could honestly say she spoke to me as if I was 5. In a soft condescending tone.

It started with a hello from her.

XW: Parent teacher interviews are tomorrow. The school told me to stay way because it’s a safe place for the girls. They don’t want me there making a fuss.

Me: yes it is. I agree with them.

XW: I miss the girls.

Me: I believe you. But have you told them and explained to them what happened. Why you neglected them for so long.

XW: Irish. I left you. I did nothing wrong to them. You manipulated the girls against me.

Me: we are not having this conversation. I can’t help you. Your relationship is between you and them. I don’t control them or manipulate. They are old enough to see you for who you are.

XW: I’m not a monster. I am their mother.

Me: well then you should act like a mother then. Put them first.

XW: I won’t introduce them to my boyfriend. Why don’t they like him? My mother and sister don’t talk to me. You manipulated them.

Me: wow. I must be amazing at that. Manipulation. I guess I manipulated everyone.

XW: Yes. Even our friends. And I put them in brackets (friends) because they all abandoned me when I needed them the most.

Me: not having this conversation . I have to go. I’m home

XW: I know I saw you drove by. (Her work is on the main road leading to the bridge to my side of town)

Me: I have to go.

XW: if we paid for a MC maybe things would have been different.

Me: no, we would still be where we are today. Your destiny.

XW: (yelling now) OH YOU ARE SO MUCH BETTER THAN ME. MANIPULATOR AND CONTROLLING. THAT IS WHY I LEFT YOU. NOW YOU CONTROL THE GIRLS

ME: ok. Nice talking to you. End of conversation.

XW: I’ll call your parents.

Me: they are in their 70’s. They have been through a lot with all this. They most certainly don’t need you calling them and stressing them out. I would appreciate it if you don’t. bye

I hang up

It went on a little too ling. First time I spoke to her since January mediation. I think. Lol can’t really remember.

Shows me she is back to square one. No regret really and narcissistic behavior and entitlement. She did nothing wrong. How do you block a private number lol?

Start of a great week. Ground is covered in snow and the geese are heading south.
Wish you all a great week.
Irish