sandi -I just read what you posted to fighting, however, my w came out with the I'm sorry I've been thinking a lot, I love you, I miss you, we are meant to be together, she made a mistake she wants to take back but is scared of what "others" will think and that she still needs to decide what's best for her & D10. all of course 7+ months after BD. W is still seeing OW, so yes similar to fighting "sorrys" but actions are still of betrayal. w has recently asked numerous times what I want and asked If I hate her. W is very interested in my life and what I'm doing. I want to believe my W is actually remorseful but of course I want to think that. I have not told my W i love her or miss her. I'm basically stressing out and am overwhelemed with her
When do we actaully know? I understand the remorse and the apologies have to come with actions. is that it? No actions, no M? No way to "encourage" the actions? I'm completely at a loss as to what to do in my stich now. thanks! -cheesyt
