I see your point on moving on by GAL. I can agree with that.
Yes, I think it will do me some good for sure. At the very least it will help me detach more and give me the space to work on myself without distraction.
Leaving was bittersweet, but I had no legal standing to stay there so I agreed. No need in making things ugly if I didn't have to. I'll willing give her all the time and space she needs to figure her feelings out, but I won't guarantee that I'll be willing to take her back if she ever decides that's what she wants.
I would do the same as you are in your situation. I wouldn't leave, and I wouldn't ask my W to leave either. I think you're handling it wonderfully!
Me: 35 W: 32 MR: 2y T: 3.5y SS11 BD: 11/3/16 EA: 10/26/16 PA: 11/11/16 W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16 Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL I filed for D: 12/14/16 D-day: 3/10/17
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
