There's no need to reply to that. It sounds to me that she wants in your house for something.
I wrote her back that No, I am not...I don't owe her explanations anymore. Its enough to say I have it covered...but thanks for offering
She didn't like that! Something about them being her animals too, and how its not asking a lot...then some curse words and another comment about asking for too much. I haven't replied and don't intend to.
Initially it felt good to stand up for myself, but now I feel bad...