Yeah, me too, if I'm honest. Or, if not exactly "cool", then at least one thing that's contra-indicative of the overall trend toward more and more separation and loss of connection.

In the spirit of keeping it honest, when I take mine off, it's almost out of rebellion or as a way I can make myself feel less acted upon and more acting for/by myself. If that makes sense.

Sex seems long, long gone at this point, which will ultimately force my hand if it doesn't force hers first.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)