Apologies as I am not familiar with your thread, however it sounds like you are doing well. I understand your fear. I think it is totally normal albeit terrifying. I can relate 100%. I know you aren't supposed to hold back per se, although, I do think taking things slowly and being observant is wise.
I think we can't help but analyze things or wonder why this person likes us even though we logically know we are good people. Flawed of course..as is everyone. Enjoy the conversation and let the chips fall where they may. Difficult I'm sure.
I had to chime in to V's list. According to my ex (and both of these things were said through huge sobs), I was guilty of "being too logical and he didn't understand how I could function being so logical" and apparently I had a fatal flaw. He absolutely couldn't stand the way I eat tacos. Which happened maybe twice a year. Sigh. What are you going to do?
Glad to hear the new guy is respectful. Enjoy it:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
