wow, what a story, well done on standing up for what you believe in and in having the strength to do what you have done.
What would be very interesting is to hear your husbands perspective on all this. I hope in time you may be able to share this with us.
Best wishes on the future
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted