convicting... as in stop you in your tracks, point a finger at self, that sort of thing... maybe an aha moment

It's a church thing...

So, when I stopped in my tracks I thought, am I supposed to be nurturing baby steps and how do I do that... but KAW you answered it for me... I have to wait on his POV which is what I thought

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.