6 months since I posted this and I don't feel like I've made it anywhere. I'm so bad at this. It is totally against my nature to leave something alone but I've learned that I have to just don't know if it's too late. It was going ok until about a month ago. She was asking me to snuggle every night and telling me she loved me every few days and I totally blew it by pushing her - that wasn't enough for me. We ended up having a fight and it's been really bad since.
Sorry - I would love to have brought good news, I come here and read sometimes. The threads on mid-life crisis really hit home with her behavior and I think on top of all the issues I bring to the table she may be going through that.
I have the hardest time acting normal around her. I feel totally rejected and it makes me stress and I know she can feel it and it makes it worse.
