New to the Boards. Marriage in Crisis.

[fightin]

I can't say that I've actually moved on, just out. I still wake up wishing this wasn't my life. I still miss her terribly, but I do think the physical separation is helping me detach. Of course I worry that me leaving put the final nail in the coffin, but I know logically only time will tell on that. If you keep up on my thread you know what a mess she was the night before I moved out so I know she's still very all over the place emotionally.

As for your W and her statement, she's very conflicted, but she's going to have to sort that out for herself. You can't fix it for her as much as you'd like to. Eventually a switch will flip and she'll choose her path, it just might not be the one you're hoping for and I think that is the most difficult thing to accept as the LBS.

Yes, GAL as much as possible. I'm still working on this one as well, but I know it helps.