W-do you hate me? Me-no W – I’m sorry Cheesyt. Can we maybe talk? Considering replying way later, something along the lines of “maybe after my vacation, I have been doing a lot of thinking about what I want my life to look like” or my future to look like. Or, considering asking if she’s still seeing OW? No need to talk if she’s with OW? Idk though. I'll happily consider suggestions.
JRuss, thanks! that “not your circus” comment made me laugh. Also puts things in perspective, you’re absolutely right. It’s not my circus. I hadn’t thought about the EA and PA part or cake eating. My W is certainly a mess. I know the next conversations, interactions are very crucial. Thank you for the boost, I don’t feel like I’m kicking a$$ but it’s nice to get a different perspective!
Fighting, thanks for stopping by. At less than a month into this mess I could not have come up with that response you suggested. You’re certainly getting a good handle on this!
