New to the Boards. Marriage in Crisis.

[Chris73]

Thanks fightin. I'm happy to see that you've been able to move on (and out). Sometimes that feels like such a welcome alternative to the day-in/day-out of living with a WW. But I would miss my kids terribly. As it is I only see them for a couple hours a night during the week.

The thing that [censored] is that my W admitted in our last MC session that she simultaneously needs the "space" that I'm giving her and doesn't like the space between us. When I hear that my "fix it" brain just throws its hands up and says WTF is wrong with you woman?!

I keep thinking that some sort of switch is going to flip with her and the alien that has taken over will go back to its home planet and the fog will be lifted and she'll break down and beg for forgiveness.

I know this isn't going to happen so I really need to dispell this fantasy and look for other ways to motivate myself...