Wife had affair now moved out

[Wes25]

Thank you Sandi. Like much of the advice that I have received on here, you are absolutely correct

My life has always been about the MR. I think I am really struggling to find my identity and who I am. We grew up together so I was never really an individual. Always identified as a couple.

I have been going to the gym alot, beginning to run and trying to become much healthier.

As for male friends yes I have some problem being is when we moved away (2 hours) I never made friends here as I was so dependent on the MR. Now I go back as much as possible but working and shared custody it doesn't leave much time. That is a goal of have made for myself.