This just reinforces my belief that people show you who they are real fast and often the hard part is believing them! You took a chance, despite his initial inappropriateness and found that he is what he presented himself to be. That's ok, you move on and see what else is out there. My best friend's psychiatrist once told him that he would date at least 20 people before he found "the one". My friend thought the shrink was nuts but he's now finding that is indeed the case! The number 20 isn't written in stone but the point being that you may have to sample a few more before finding someone who's dysfunction fits with your dysfunction lol...and you ride off into the Jersey sunset together...either that or you just get a turtle.
