I agree w/whatisis. He's got to go if he can't respect your requests about the sexual comments. He may think he sounds macho, etc., but in my books that's a step down if he can't respect you and your wishes.
BTW, I love pugs too! My neighbor has a pug and she's as cute as a button. She's very well mannered and is good w/children.
Time to turn the page and see what crops on the dating site for the month of December. There are more fish in the sea and the right one will come along and not only sweep you off your feet, but respect you for the woman that you are. You gave the plumber a chance and he blew it. That's on him.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
