Hey Chris, sorry to hear you're having a rough morning. Me too, today was one of those days I woke up and thought "crap, this isn't a nightmare". So, I feel ya. I have it maybe a little easier since I moved out and we aren't around one another, but I know how hard it was when I was still there.

ngs is right, we just have to remind ourselves to let go every day, sometimes several times a day, and try to stay as positive as possible. I know you are, Chris, I know you're giving it your all and that can be so exhausting. Just find something that helps recharge you if you can. Meditation, prayer, thinking about your amazing kids, etc.

You'll be okay, I have to remind myself of this all the time, but I do know it to be true. We will all be okay, and hopefully, even better than ever when this chapter in our lives closes in whatever way it does.

Much love to you today


Me: 35 W: 32
MR: 2y T: 3.5y
SS11
BD: 11/3/16
EA: 10/26/16
PA: 11/11/16
W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16
Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL
I filed for D: 12/14/16
D-day: 3/10/17