New to the Boards. Marriage in Crisis.

[Chris73]

Thanks ngs. I'm definitely doing all of those things.

Lately I feel like DBing has become a part time job (or maybe even full time!), and today I'm just over it. The books, these boards, the prayers, practicing what I'm going to say before every encounter with my W... I'm effing tired of it!

Ok, rant over. Of course I'm not quitting. I'm just venting.

The holidays are coming and it's really hard to go through the motions of making all the family plans with this problem hanging over our heads. Both of our kids have birthdays in December and we're also planning a trip to Disney in early January. I've stopped asking my W if she STILL wants to do the Disney trip bc she always says yes. I really do want to go, to see the joy on my kids' faces.