New to the Boards. Marriage in Crisis.

[ngs]

I miss my wife also. We sleep in separate beds, all I want is a hug, all I want is my wife to talk to me. She is angry with me all the time. You have to keep it up though, you have to stay positive, you have to look at the changes you are making for yourself to feel good about yourself.

You have to let go. And I realized after Cadet reminded me "Let Go" yesterday, that every morning I get up I have to reinforce the let go, before I come home from work I again have to reinforce the let go. It's not easy.

I have books that I read daily, books about staying positive. I practice gratitude throughout the day for everything that I have and that helps keep me stay positive. Gratitude for kids, health, home...there are so many things to be thankful for in spite of what you are going through. I exercise daily, am in the best shape in 20 years and that helps my attitude.

Keep it up, stay positive, find what helps you stay positive and keep those things up.