OK, so have received the below email from the W:
"Have you thought about what you are doing Christmas do you want joseph? Mom has asked me to ask you if you want to come for dinner you are still welcome and I have no problem if you wanted to come. If not and you want joseph for the day then let me know."

HELP!!! what do I do here?...

M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016