Cherry, you definitely deserve to be treated well.

You are mature and resilient for your age. And you're sassy and gorgeous to boot.

Having said that, I think the key to detachment is to separate the man from the actions. Condemn the actions but not the man.

That way, if and when your H finishes his wayward journey and finds his way back to you, it will probably be easier to forgive him.

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.