One thing I've learned from this is the difference between a boundary and everything else like a threat or an ultimatum. A boundary is what you will or won't allow. People often confuse them but there's a huge difference.
I'm also curious about what else Sandi has to say about respect as she often writes about how critical it is. I welcome you to ask her in my "ask Sandi" thread if she doesn't get to it here:
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om
