Hawker, I think you're doing great now! I got super lucky (or divine intervention maybe?) that I found this site within 24 hours of BD.
I've said it before and I'll say it again, this forum and you amazing people have literally help save my life more than once. The support and inspiration here is like nothing I've ever experienced before.
Me: 35 W: 32 MR: 2y T: 3.5y SS11 BD: 11/3/16 EA: 10/26/16 PA: 11/11/16 W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16 Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL I filed for D: 12/14/16 D-day: 3/10/17