In response to your question on bttrfly post I would say that I did not embrace the divorce. I accepted it as just another step in the process.
After the divorce, I did not persue her. I would ask about things concerning the kids or taxes, always in a business like manner. I would always ask her how she was doing, again more business like, when ever we did talk. All communication was via text and kept short.
I truely think she thought the sun would shine, angels sing, etc. It came to her fairly quickly that she still was not happy. then she reached out.
You just have to wait it out.
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