Physically attracted? Yes, without question. She is a very beautiful woman and my exact type. I think she is attracted to me too.
Out 'chemistry' issues boiled down to a few things (I think). First, I think we were missing that emotional attachment that makes chemistry easy and 'natural'. Second, we lacked spontaneity and always waited for the weekends particularly Saturday night. This creates stress for both of us and turned something that should be enjoyable into something that was not so. It turned into an obligation. Third, my head would just go wonky and I'd get anxiety. It just felt like I was never doing anything right. I hardly ever initiated because of this even though I wanted to all the time. This is my issue to deal with.
On BD she was saying that these things should be natural and we just didn't have it. I disagreed and said these issues could be worked on if both wanted it (she didn't back then of course). Now, she again stresses how important this is to her and I do not disagree. It is very important. She says she is open to working on it but does not know where to start.
