Hi Bman72. Sorry to have to make your acquaintance under these circumstances. Your sitch sounds EXTREMELY similar to mine and I would invite you to peruse the thread I started on this board about a couple weeks ago.
I made a sh- ton of mistakes in the 6 months since my W dropped the ILYBANILWY bomb. I discovered the affair on my own. I doubt she would have ever told me about it. We do the same things that you and your W do (share a bed, hello/goodbye contact, etc.) It's very hard to live with, but I think sandi2's advice is right on.
The detachment stuff is tough especially this time of year if you have kids and the holidays are coming up. But the GaL stuff is actually refreshing.
Keep reading and posting, even if it's just to do something other than pursuing...
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14
