Yes, she definitely has a 'woe is me' mentality and doesn't seem to realise that she has created her own reality here. It was pretty confrontational I think to turn up with the family mob when S had said he didn't want her there. I'm not surprised he was upset.
Can I ask you Scrant - if she was never that into parenting anyway, what makes you think things would be any different if she chose to return to the M. What do you want for yourself and your S here and why?
Feel free not to answer my questions if you don't find them helpful - I won't be offended at all my friend.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
