It was funny when Blu said that...I chuckled as well. You will have your ups and downs for awhile, it is all part of the process and it is ok!! Its totally normal...I cried more this year than I ever cried in my lifetime...and I am totally serious. Yes I had the same type of feelings (still do) that my W moved right in with someone after living here for 10 years. Just remember they are wayward and selfish right now....the old S you married is gone.

This is the time to focus on you!!! ;-) Stay strong, you have a good handle on what you are supposed to be doing and its early in your sitch...I wish I would have been stronger at first but it is what it is.....


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017