Gump -- yeah, we have it rough for sure, but not first-wave Omaha Beach rough. Perspective never hurts.
(Going all the way back to your original post ("Keep Wearing Wedding Band"), I've found myself more and more taking my ring off and putting it in my pocket. I always put it back on when I'm around her, and I think it's because it would still be a really big blow were she to take off hers (as she'd probably do if she saw me without mine), but I go long periods of time where I feel like I'm not really "married" anymore other than legally.)
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)