New to the Boards. Marriage in Crisis.

[Chris73]

I'm certainly not going to come out and suggest that we quit MC when she's still willing to go.

Not saying you should or shouldnt.

But why not?

Because I believe this action is likely to backfire. At least right now since we've only had 2 sessions and we're still feeling things out. I think if just declare out of nowhere that we should stop MC my W will take is as yet another sign that I give up when things get too difficult. This is something about me that she has complained about (and that I've honestly been guilty of) for a long time.

BUT...

Let's assume the sessions continue for another couple of months and nothing changes because she is still stuck in this state of ambiguity. I would certainly consider stopping the MC sessions in that situation.