Foolishly, I decided to count her cycle and then leave it in right before her period to try and enhance sexy time with a surprise. She got pregnant so I either counted wrong or she ovulated very late. She surprised me with how upset she was.
I agree with Sandi. She put her trust in you and you betrayed her.
Originally Posted By: Lex23
We did not want a 3rd kid but I assured her that I would take care of it and it would be ok.
Thats easy for you to say. Were you going to sacrifice your body carrying for 9 months? Were you going to undergo the risks involved with pregnancy and delivery?
Originally Posted By: Lex23
She tells me that I hurt her on purpose(I did not)
You did not? It sounds like you made a selfish choice and it backfired. It was an accident that she got pregnant, but your decision was NOT an accident.
I know this post is not helpful in how to move forward. But I think at first, you need to really look at your side of the street to understand what you did in your marriage.
