Kitti, That is truly awesome. I am beginning to feel the same way. I have just now "gotten" the idea of really getting a life. I am slowly but surely learning to detach, but am not quite there yet.
For me the idea of "getting a life" went off like a buzzer in my head. No more sitting around the house making him the center of my universe. No more being bummed out because he didn't want to go anywhere on his two weeks off. No more feeling like he's ashamed to be seen in public with me for no good reason.
Akgal dancing...I'm coming out! I want the world to know, going to let it show! I'm coming out!
In my case, I'm coming out to play! Akgal smiles.
Important message: This song has nothing to do with my sexual orientation or declarations about my sexual orientation. It has to do with me getting a life and that's all. End message. LOLOLOLOL
You sound like your PMA is soaring. I'm so happy for you!