I did talk to him over lunch. He called to let me know that he was going to cancel our cell phone contract because there was a cheaper option through tmobile. He said that he didnt want to be on a family plan anymore though, that hed rather I have my own line, even if it was more cost effective to have it as a family plan. Fine. I agreed and said I'd go sign up for my own plan after school.

He started talking about places to cut costs and we talked for a while just going over expenses and I said that I supposed I could cancel my trip to Alaska, and he said "no, I dont want you to do that. You need to go." He also made it a point that I shouldnt sell or cancel things that are important to me if they make me happy.

It wasnt an entirely awful conversation with him. It just felt normal and light hearted. Like I said, he yo-yos. I finally learned how to jump off the ride and not get emotional over each good or bad day with him.


Married for seven years

1 two-year-old boy

BD: 09/16/2016

Separated in different states due to military/school