I guess I am best to not bring anything up about our relationship, the kids, ect. at this point and just let the divorce proceedings play out, we are a month in from her filing for divorce and have a pre-trial conference with the judge 01-10-17.
YUP - that is what no relationship talks means.
DB'ing is counter intuitive, that means to do the opposite of what your common sense is telling you to do.
