I can see where it looks like shifting but, the kids get upset when they "have" to go to her house for the night. They are ok for a few hours but only because she enticed them with new kittens. I know I can't control how things are at her house but, I should get some say in the exposure that they have.


34, xw33
M-10, T-18
2D (8 and 5)
Ilybinilwy-1/16
EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend)
Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated)
W moved out-8/16
W Filed 11/21/16
D final 1/30/17