don't tell her what you're doing, if she pries, -a friend, -what friend? - you don't know them. change the subject, begin to leave. she doesn't get to know what you're doing since she Fired you from your W job. where are you seeing ss? -what worked for me was picking up SD and taking her to the park or to eat. anything away from W because who needs the pressure, is she watching, is she listening, just interferes with mine and D's relationship.