Hi pinn, I know it doesn't help your sitch but I am having similar issues with my W - she won't commit to being fully in, and atm I don't really know what is happening
talk is cheap as they say - it's action we are both looking for.
I too feel a but stuck, guess we just have to continue to DB our best to make ourselves the best we can be, your W has to make these steps herself and show you the commitment needed.
Please continue to keep us updated on your sitch, it's reassuring not just our own spouses are behaving like this.
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted