Thanks fightin'. It has been hard and I have to admit that I was a bit depressed about the whole thing after we finally got home from our date. But I dealt with it and put my best face forward in the morning.

TxHubby, she's been having weekly IC sessions since June. She has a LOT to work through including a very traumatic childhood. Frankly all of my neediness and pursuit in the first few months since the BD did not help facilitate any of her progress. But I'm doing things different now. Primarily moving on with my own life regardless of where she's at. Hopefully this will help her focus more on figuring out what she wants...


M46 W48
M11 T14
S11 D8
BD: 2016/05/27
In-home separation: 2016/11/23
Nesting: 2017/06/11
W moves out: 2018/01/07
W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12
I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14