That was apparently a fairytale in my case too, RL. But your new fairytale is very inspiring to me. Keeps me from not choosing to be the crazy cat lady who doesn't even like cats.
Ginger,
I have no doubt that you'll have a new fairytale soon enough. Keep the faith.
Originally Posted By: Ginger1
Doodler, it's not as miserable as I am making it sound. You should be excited. And maybe if you stop standing chicks up, you'll see!!!!!!
Because of you, I'm reformed; if I make a date, I won't cancel unless there's a real emergency.
Doodler, thanks, I had to come back and read that today.
I'm definitely strongly considering becoming the crazy pug lady. With crazy stuff that is happening in my life right,
Pugs are the way to go.
And I am very glad you are reformed. If you end up marrying a woman where in the back of your mind you were about to cancel the first date, but my voice crept in your head......I expect an invitation to the wedding.
Doodler I will keep. Especially if we could turn him into a pug.
The plumber treats me like one of his guy friends. Except with non-stop sexual comments. There is no treating me like an actual woman he wants to date. It's a huge turn-off. Therefore, the vibes are not there. The intellectual stimulation isn't there either
I may be looking for something that does not exist. I've become emotionally high maintenance. It is what it is!
Sexual comments when he's been told that's not ok...is not ok. Hey, you gave it a shot and it didn't work out...that's called dating...but at least you gave him a chance.